What if I Told you That you could FINALLY…
✅ WIN & ENJOY The EXPERIENCE OF SPEAKING PUBLICLY – PRESENT LIKE A CHAMPION
✅ BE unapologetically you
✅ TRUST YOURSELF in the spotlight, IN THE MOMENT
✅ FEEL relaxed in your power
✅ nail your presentationS
✅ BREAK FREE FROM THE PRISON OF PERFECTIONISM and “SHOULDs”
✅ COMMUNICATE YOUR EXPERTISE WITH EASE
✅ Have UNSHAKEABLE SELF-CONFIDENCE AND PROFOUND SELf-BELIEF
✅ AND FEEL SO RIDICULOUSLY GOOD ABOUT ALL OF your success, TOO?
True Self Loveᵀᴹ Mindset & Transformational Coaching
with Nicole Guberman, MNLP, MHt
ONLINE PUBLIC SPEAKING ANXIETY COACH, MINDSET ALCHEMIST, SELF-LOVE COACH, CONFIDENCE CATALYST, VOICE TRANSFORMER & RELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION SPECIALIST…
Liberating High-Achieving Corporate Executives, Business Owners, and Experts into Fearless, Confident Speakers
On the Stage, Screen, and Anywhere in Between
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
❌ YOU ARE WROUGHT WITH ANXIETY HAVING TO SPEAK IN PUBLIC, YOU HATE DOING IT, AND YOU SHY AWAY FROM the spotlight
❌ YOU HARSHLY CRITICIZE YOUR PERFORMANCE
❌ YOU’RE TERRIFIED OF GOING “LIVE” AND YOU HIDE OR Delay YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA PRESENCE
❌ YOU CHicken-out LAST-MINUTE, MAKE EXCUSES, PROCRASTINATE DOING VIDEOS for your business
❌ YOU FEEL LIKE AN IMPOSTER
❌ YOU GET INTIMIDATED, KEEP QUIET, OR CAN’T SPEAK UP IN THE CONFERENCE/Board ROOM
❌ YOU DREAD that Networking event
❌ YOU’RE AFRAID/HESITANT TO SPEAK UP EVEN AT THE DINNER TABLE
❌ YOU CLOSE OFF FROM YOUR PARTNER
❌ YOU ‘DIM YOUR LIGHT’ EVEN THOUGH INSIDE, YOU KNOW YOUR GIFTS, SKILLS, AND EXPERTISE NEED TO BE SEEN & HEARD
FREE MASTERCLASS:
5 STEPS TO GO FROM ANXIOUS SPEAKER TO ROCKSTAR PRESENTER… STEP INTO YOUR POWER AND SPEAK LIKE AN ULTRA-CONFIDENT CHAMPION
(NOTE: THIS PRESENTATION WAS ORIGINALLY CREATED FOR WOMEN ONLY. NOW, MY OFFERINGS HAVE EXPANDED TO MEN and NB, TOO!)
You’re about to change the entire relationship you have with your mind, your body, and your voice…
What I hear from clients during the very first conversation:
“I want to increase my self-confidence around my public work performance in order to win a promotion. My anxiety around presenting gets in my way... I overthink, abandon myself, and doubt myself, and struggle to be present in the moment. This keeps me from showing up in my power and being able to trust myself and deliver… I just want to feel good about how it went!!”
I recently received a promotion and as a result of additional speaking opportunities there’s more pressure to deliver and I’m stuck in fear, shame, and dread… I know I should just “be myself” yet I’m feeling such a big block to showing up authentically…“
“When I’m communicating with other important people or having to present, I second-guess my instincts. I wish I had more confidence about speaking my mind exactly the way I’d like to… especially after I’ve rehearsed a lot…”
“I often have a really hard time saying no… this is getting in the way of my own presentation goals… ”
“I’ve achieved many milestones as a professional, however, I don’t want to seem like I don’t know what I’m doing… when I’m in the spotlight I lose myself and my composure and I know I can do better than that… I need to feel relaxed and in charge.”
“I criticize myself intensely once I’ve done a presentation – sometimes I don’t even realize I’m doing it. I avoid doing the things I know I need to do in order to improve… the self-sabotage is sneaky and relentless.”
“I’m a perfectionist and this is holding me back from showing up boldly in my business. I don’t know how to show up on camera the way I’d like to. I don’t want to dance on camera or do the ‘trends’… I want to really enjoy how I present myself in my business.”
“I don’t have enough tools to manage my anxiety around being publicly perceived… I’ve worked so hard to get where I am, yet I still don’t know all the answers, and I feel like an imposter. I still feel like I’m not enough.”
“I don’t understand my hesitation… I care too much about what people think.”
“I’m tired of not presenting the way I know I can. I know I deserve more for myself – I deserve the best but I’ve been holding myself back and settling for less.”
“I’m sick of the disconnect between how I feel in my head and my body when I have to show up on stage, on camera, Zoom, and on social media. Why can’t I give a give great presentation like everyone else? How can I stop chickening out? What is going on with my hiding?”
“I feel like I’ve tried everything but I haven’t seen real RESULTS. I don’t feel truly understood, something isn’t quite right. I’m ready to dive deep. I’m anxious, but I’M READY FOR CHANGE.”
Hello!
Nicole here. I’m thrilled you found me!
I’m a Mindset and Transformation Coach, Entrepreneur, classically trained Opera Singer, Resilience Queen… I’m your modern Fairy God-mentor, your Self-love Sorceress, and your Fear Extinguisher. I’m also fanatical lover of tiny dogs, travel, music, the art of creation, problem-solving, and a whole lot more!
As a Master Success Coach, Master NLP Practitioner, and Master Hypnotherapist, I help ambitious, imaginative, star people like you who have found themselves out of alignment with their values, feelings, and beliefs… and even their physical body, morph into their highest self – their True Self – and into a firm grounding of deep self-love, acceptance, and trust. Once they do this, they are able to show up powerfully in their presenting and express themselves with ease so that they achieve the success they are destined for in their career and relationships.
This journey into Self is a liberation which not only allows one to thrive more wholly in life and in work, but also allows one to attract and receive from the right people. Sounds divine, doesn’t it?
THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE
Imaginative, gifted, hard-working—who are born to achieve and make a deep impact are often…
Unsure of what to do next to get to where they want to go.
Fearful of failing… and succeeding.
Worried about what people will think, say, or do.
Feeling like they are not enough.
Seeking approval, putting on a smile, trying to please.
Hiding, keeping their skills and talents to themselves.
Dealing with internal family struggles holding them back.
Drawn to people who steal their sparkle and light.
Living in an inappropriate energy, attracting the wrong relationships.
That’s right. If you’ve landed here, then you’re a bright person. You’ve likely already done some, or perhaps a lot, of personal work. Maybe you’ve tried therapy but you haven’t quite gotten the results you truly desire. These things I’ve mentioned above are still getting in your way and keeping you up at night, in a h*ll you’re ready to leave. You need a different approach, from someone who really gets you.
And while you’re driven to reach your goals and live the most amazing, fruitful, fulfilling life… these thoughts, feelings, and beliefs… these encounters and lacking relationships… continue to throw you off kilter and leave you looping the same unproductive behavior.
The clock’s ticking. And you have no more time to waste. You know things have GOT to change. NOW.
If you’re an ambitious, accomplished expert in your field… but you’re hiding, procrastinating, self-abandoning, or afraid to be seen and heard as the star you truly are … If you’re tired of playing small, if you’re ready to level UP, expand, place the past behind, and put an end to old running programs and un-aligned living affecting how you show up and speak professionally and personally… then it’s time to take the leap. It’s time to commit to True Self Love.
A little bit more about me
Known for being whimsical, profound, and relentlessly dedicated, I love adventure. I also come from a family of professional givers, with all the learnings, and all the pro’s and con’s (because let’s be real, no family is perfect.) These days, I recognize the many, many, pro’s, and am beyond thankful for my roots.
I’ve always worked my tush off in whatever I put my mind to, liking to do well. My background in the arts, opera, education, and personal development led to the formation of my own distinctive superpowers. But really, it often wasn’t easy… in fact, I’d dealt with an extraordinary amount of adversity.
In certain areas of life, I had to learn the hard way… dealing with anxiety, performance anxiety, self-doubt, a highly active Inner Critic, overworking, giving too much, people-pleasing left and right, exercising weak boundaries, overly focusing on others, and tossing around my personal power. I also repeatedly found myself engaging with emotionally unavailable, avoidant addicts, toxic people, or narcissists. There came the turning point. Having led myself astray too many times, eventually I made a decision: I knew that person indeed was not who I truly wanted to be, and I was ready for a new life and identity, once and for all.
When I accepted this decision, I sought help from carefully chosen supportive mentors and… everything changed. EVERYTHING. I learned to rewire my brain and truly value myself. I released the negative emotions and limiting beliefs that had been holding me back. And If I could create massive change in myself rapidly – even though it was hard – then I knew it was possible for other highly committed, decisive, coachable people. I understood that we all have an inside job to do, in order to live fully aligned, joyous, purposeful lives!
As I took the necessary steps to love and accept myself radically which I had avoided for too long, both my voice literally and figuratively got bigger and bigger. This journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and ascension to truth, has been a magical process, not without challenges, of course, for which I continue to be grateful for every single day. I can’t wait to be a part of your journey of massive transformation and success!
True Self Love: What it Means and How it Strengthens Our Presence and Ability to Communicate as Leaders
HONORING YOUR VOICE
True Self Love compels us to honor our voice and needs: not losing or denying oneself in the context of others’ behavior
a way of life
ACTIONS FORWARD
centered in purpose
True Self Love empowers us to be led by a deep centeredness in our life purpose and values in our powerful, yet delicately, balanced feminine and masculine energies
exist for yourself only
radiates from within
PLAYING BIG
True Self Love means playing BIG, recognizing patterns that hold us back from going FULL OUT, and making the necessary physical, mental, and emotional changes in order to break through
POSSESSING COURAGE
True Self Love means possessing the courage to be oneself (and WITH oneself!) in total authenticity and commitment toward all areas of life…committing to facing anxiety with self-compassion and self-acceptance
THRIVING IN THE UNKNOWN
simplified mindset
True Self Love leads to expansive joy, a clear and simplified mindset, and the actualization of our goals, our outcomes
deeper connections
true mindfulness
manifests real results
Mission & Core Values
I help corporate professionals, company founders, and experts unleash their Superhero within to present like champions in any environment. They learn to own their voice and speak assertively in their career and relationships, so that they own more confidence, freedom, and authenticity on and off the stage – in all areas of life.
Working together, I help you release and reprogram the negative emotions and limiting beliefs holding you back from speaking your authentic truth, loving your identity, and owning your value, so that you never settle for less than you deserve, and actually achieve the success you’re destined for.
OPTIMISM & CURIOSITY
Just as anyone can learn to sing (even if they think they can’t) – anyone can break free, heal, and thrive from past pain, negative and limiting beliefs, or current struggles that have affected how they present themselves. It takes WORK, but the belief that it can be done and is 100% possible – comes first. Listen, seek, and learn. There is always more to discover.